What a weird time we are living in! It’s crazy that every day I wake up just to remember that the world is closed and my life is COMPLETELY on pause. Granted, I have the people I live with to love and cherish, but my jobs, my friends, my social life, any traveling, any future planning, or even any possible dating are ALL on hold for the foreseeable future. As a 22-year-old, only a year and a half out of college, 4 months home from a year long mission trip, and barely settled back into society, the world shutting down was NEVER a part of my “plan.” I hardly had a plan to begin with; I’m literally staring the rest of my life in the face debating when/where/what/how to make the first move. But, after a long conversation with a trusted friend about this madness, we came to the conclusion that we can either choose to sit in this season and overthink, wish things were different, get worried or frustrated, want all the things we can’t have, panic about what seems like a nonexistent future (just me being over dramatic), or we can accept this season for what it is: forced — but needed — simplicity.
There is literally no better time than now to simplify our lives. I was approached to write this article because the last year of my life I lived out of a 60-liter backpack as a sojourner (fancy word for homeless person on a mission). However, I think that there is so much more to simplifying than not having a ton of possessions. Simplification can exist in material things but also in emotions, ways of thinking, dealing, and speaking, and in almost any aspect of your life. It can also be used as a tool to bring you strength and power while releasing control. Mostly, it gives you a sense of focus on those things that are actually important. It just means that everything in your life has an understandable reason and purpose, and that you cut out all the extras that are unnecessary. You focus on the aspects of life that matter most and cut out the excess. Simplicity at its roots means “to be easy to understand, easy to do, plain, and/or natural.” Obviously right now life seems pretty simple for a lot of us. We don’t have jobs, have nowhere to go since everything is closed, don’t see people as often, and are constantly looking for things to fill our days. Some people are working essential jobs (THANK YOU), yet after work are coming home to sanitize and stay home because, again, the world is basically closed. However, what if we could take what this “quarantine” is forcing us to do and actually apply all of the good aspects to our everyday lives after it’s over? I’m not blind to the fact that there is a virus and people are getting really sick, sometimes fatally, and this isn’t by any means a fun time. But what if this big pause in our lives isn’t what we should be praying away? What if God has created a space for us to focus, strip back down to the roots of it all, and simply center back on Him? What if simplicity is what we have been missing?
So the big question: how do we simplify? No, you don’t need to sell all of your possessions, move, give your money away, and spend all of your life in a war room in prayer. I think the best way we can learn to simplify is to examine the person who lived the simplest life, yet left the largest impact on the world to this day: none other than my main man, Jesus. By reading through the Gospels (and some other scriptures), we can learn from Jesus’ ways and words just what it means to live simply yet abundantly! Here are a few practical ways we can start to simplify our crazy lives to look more like Jesus:
1. Simplify your POSSESSIONS: Remember your treasure is HEAVEN, not in possessions here on earth! No need for clutter if it interferes with your relationship with God.
2. Simplify your RESOURCES: With what you have, give generously...and don’t worry if people know.
3. Simplify your ACTIONS: Who you are is shown more by what you do than what you say. Serve humbly, excellently, and go the extra mile!
4. Simplify your SPEECH and THINKING: Be truthful, direct, kind, and careful with your words. Be clear, deliberate, and know what you want.
5. Simplify your EMOTIONS and DECISIONS: When you are confronted with emotion, draw away and spend time alone and in prayer.
6. Simplify your PATH: You are YOU. Remember: you can’t please everyone. (And take that road less traveled by!)
There are many great examples Jesus set in His life. I think the simplicity of His life, words, and actions are some of the best. Yes, He was God, He made miracles, He was resurrected, but all of this was made possible because He lived a simplified life and was ready for anything God had for Him. He wasn’t tied to possessions and things, He gave freely, He spent His time serving and teaching, He spoke clearly and directly, He knew His purpose, He sought wisdom from the Father in prayer, and He never cared what people thought of Him. He wanted to bring people to the Father, He didn’t care what the Pharisees had to say. He sought out the lost and lowly. He traveled to bring the Kingdom wherever He went. He spent time with those He loved and invested in things that truly hold meaning. Jesus may have been God and may have done some crazy things, but He led a simple life. We could all stand to be a little more like Jesus. And I really think this quarantine is proving we could all stand to be a little slower, more engaged, and simplified.
I want to recognize that simplifying is a process. You can’t just master it overnight, and there will be times where you will have to refocus. Simplicity is a choice, therefore it takes effort to sustain. So, I may not have it all down every second of every day, but I do know what it takes, how great it makes me feel, and just how worth it living simplified can be. That motivates me to continue to live a simple life today and tomorrow. I started with simplifying my wardrobe to the basics with the occasional colorful piece to make me happy. Then I let go of all of the clutter: books I’ve read (or haven’t), knick-knacks, shoes, cups, etc., and slowly removed more things until I didn’t have too much to distract me, but still had so many people to love! I prioritize, I spend time daily trying to center myself. I still have times where I remind myself what is truly important. Then, I let go.
Simplicity is so worth it because when you remove all the clutter, only the important remains. When you have less taking up space, you will be able to surrender fully to the Lord! You will then be able to step into a life of abundance! You’ll be free to go and do whatever God asks because you aren’t tied down! You’ll be living the way you intended to. At first, simplifying may feel frustrating, painful, and daunting. Just remember, pruning hurts but it's worth it for healthy growth (John 15:2). As you let go of things, you may start to worry if you’re making the right choice. How do I give if I don’t have an income? How do I let go if I don’t know when I’ll need it? Don’t worry about your needs, God will provide; just focus on what God has called you to do today (Matthew 6:25-27, 30-34). At the end of the day, everything we do is about LOVE: loving God and loving others as we love ourselves (Matthew 22:36-40). Anything that makes this more difficult is unnecessary. Anything that distances you from a great relationship with God, those you love, and those around you that God loves, is probably not worth it. Step into the freedom of simplicity and start living your life in reckless abandon!
APPLICATION: Starting with one thing every day, what can you change, remove, or modify to simplify your life?